Have you heard yourself say something like this recently?
“When I get back in the game there’s no going back. I’m going to be leaner, fitter and stronger than I’ve ever been. Watch this space!”
But at the moment it’s a bit more like this:
• “I’ll resume working out after my vacation”
• “I’ll get back to my fitness regime in the new year. There’s way too much going on on the lead up to Christmas”
• “I’m too stressed and busy at work at the moment. I’ll wait for things to settle down then i’ll get back on it”
These all seem valid and perfectly reasonable excuses for not exercising. Modern life is hectic and we often feel like we’re being squeezed from all directions.
We are all juggling a lot!
But what are we really waiting for?
Is it the perfect time so we can start the perfect workout and the perfect diet?
From years of experience, I believe a lot of people feel that if they aren’t 100% committed, if they don’t follow an exercise or nutrition plan to the tee, they are a failure.
And it’s easy to understand why if you look at the health and fitness market place.
If you go online you’ll find perfect solutions everywhere. You may have seen packages and headers like these:
• “Transform your body in 90 days”
• “4 week fat loss plan”
• “12 weeks to the perfect body”
These packages certainly have sex appeal. They’re enticing and attractive because they offer a short term solution to our health issues and provide a plaster to cover up our internal wounds that are at the root cause of our deep dissatisfactions and insecurities.
What they don’t take into account is our frenetic lives and adherence. They tend to be quite extreme, unrealistic and sometimes (not always) darn right brutal.
It’s not long into your training plan before something crops up at work, at home or socially, and suddenly you’re thrown off track.
If there’s a ‘pause’ button that needs to be pressed, you can guarantee it’ll be the ‘health and fitness’ one.
Initially, you welcome this pause with open arms. You have more time to breathe, it takes something heavy off your never-ending to-do list and you’ve got more time to dedicate to family life and work. Dumping your new exercise programme feels an instant relief.
Phew!
However, how long is it before your pause is replaced with a sense of regret?
You’ve failed again…
and you haven’t got the energy, time or inclination to go back to the start of the plan. The initial two weeks almost killed you last time, and talk about being bad tempered!
So…you haven’t turned into the lean, mean, fighting machine you promised yourself you’d become. You’re back feeling despondent and perhaps a little depressed at your inability to complete the transformative training programme.
You look, feel and behave exactly the way, perhaps worse, than you did before you started the programme.
Do this a number of times over the years and your ambition of becoming a super fit individual becomes a pipe dream. You feel like giving up completely because you’ve never managed to achieve success.
You start telling yourself:
“Getting fit happens to other people”
“It’s my body type. I’m one of the unlucky ones”
“People expect too much from me, I’ll never be able to make this happen”
“Life is for living, not for charging around parks and eating celery sticks”
Your negative mindset hits an all time low and you’ve convinced yourself that you can’t be who you want to be.
“All this fitness malarky is too depressing!”
But what if your thought process was different?
What if you ditched the ‘all or nothing’ approach?
What if you started identifying yourself as an athlete because you do something daily to keep yourself fit and healthy?
What if your actions were small but impactful?
What if your health and wellness was an investment in yourself, not something that happens once a year before you hit the beach?
What if your goals were less about a short term fix and more about your lifestyle?
What if you were part of community who could help motivate and encourage you?
I know these approaches don’t seem terribly sexy (perhaps the reason they’re less likely to sell), but I’ve been coaching these methods for over 15 years, and I’ve lived by these principles for the last 20.
They work!
And guess what?!!
• I never have to cope with adhering to an extreme fitness programme that lasts for 90 days.
• I’m always fit and healthy, despite slight fluctuations because life gets in the way sometimes.
• I’m never stressed about doing exercise or eating well…and yes I do like beer and cake when the moment is right and I choose to let things slide a little.
• I'm not on a ‘zero to hero’ plan 2 months before my holiday because i’m not happy with my body image.
• I don’t have to deal with a never ending cycle of stress and disappointment because I’ve not managed to reach my goal or complete the task.
• I have the strength and energy to keep up with the stresses and strains of life.
• I feel happy with the knowledge that every single day I do something to keep myself mentally and physically strong.
The list of positives goes on…
And let me tell you, this slow burn approach is the only method that truly works if you want to be a fit, strong and healthy.
It really is about learning how to train smart by doing doable, realistic and scientifically proven methods that work.
And you will transform. Step by step, one day at a time.
No pauses. No failure. No regret.
The good habits you form not only stick, but change your body, your life and your perspective.
Being clever and doing little and often is an incredibly powerful tool.
It outdoes extreme every single time.